I've never been with a person who so deeply didn't want to be with me. To me he's looking for reasons and if he wants to keep doing this then he should just dump me! I personally like him. I'm able to get past his flaws, but every time we fight I can see that he's doing all he can to bring me down. Like purposely finding my weak points and choosing to exploit them.
But I am not weak. And despite how much I need this person I will not let them change me into what they need. Because what he needs is not me. If he so clearly sees this why must he offer so much resistance? He should just dump me if he doesn't like me because this is who I am. These mistakes he keeps finding are not things that I do on purpose. They are not things that would hurt me if someone were to do them to me for I do not see them as mistakes.
He is more different than I can handle. I can't fathom ever being able to grasp what he wants me to grasp.
So if that is what he needs then he won't ever find that in me.