It seems that he only is with you to look good. So watch out with this guy! He is doing it to be more popular, and look better, if you know what I mean. He may be good looking, and say the right things, but think about it...Is this the thing you really want. I was going to write that you should talk to him, but it is here the problem is (you probably already know that...) it is hard to get to talk to him. He is not good at listening, and it is difficult to get your way in a conversation. But my advise is; as he is the most dominant person in this relationship, you try to be more dominant- try to control him. Tell him you want him to listen, and tell him how you feel this is. If you don't think you can do that (Talk to him) than I must say you should end it. I'm sorry, then there would be no other way. Do you see a reason to be with a guy you don't feel that you can talk to? a guy you don't feel comfortable with? Just remember don't make him feel that you are "under" him. That you do everything he tells you to.